I was an amazing actress throughout my eating disorder because no one knew how much I was suffering inside and just how tortured I was. I’m sure that, at the height of my disorder just before “The Intervention”, people close to me knew something wasn’t quite right because my suffering was manifesting itself as extra weight. I think most just thought I had a diet and exercise or will power problem instead of a mental illness.
If your loved ones or friends are pulling away from you, take notice. It depends on your relationship with the person but it may be worth it to GENTLY offer some type of lifeline that will show you care but not push them away. Here’s an important hint: don’t talk about the weight! It could be as simple as providing them a “safe place” where they can be themselves and know they are loved unconditionally. If you suspect something is wrong, it probably is. Get professional advice and guidance if you’re unsure of what to do. You and your loved one will be glad you did.
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